Hey Girlfriend

What are you trying to attract into your life right now? Are you matching the energy of that desire? Let’s discuss… 

Right now I am at this weird stage of my life where I want to slow down, be calm and prepare for when baby girl comes into the world! But at the same time, I want everything to be done before her arrival so I can really just soak up ‘mum life’… 

So I basically found myself in this weird stage of hustling really hard to get on top of everything but also just trying to call calm into my life. 

It wasn’t until I had an anxiety attack whilst I was in a pregnancy relaxation massage (yes, in a relaxation massage) that it made me realise I needed to set some boundaries. 

I had always said at week 20 of my pregnancy that I would slow down, take a step back from work & start to really prioritise relaxing, self-care and preparation for our beautiful baby girl’s arrival! 

But as it came around, I felt almost busier than ever before. We had new launches, new collaborations, the R&C project and endless emails and I just felt like no matter what I did, I couldn’t catch up. 

(Just a side note, I am so so grateful for all the opportunities in my life, and I know how lucky I am to have them, it all just caught up to me and felt overwhelming to be honest) 

So, the point of all this is, I felt like I was trying to attract calm into my life, but my energy was anything but calm. 

It was almost like I was saying “after I’ve completed this, then I’ll feel calm” or “when this project is over, then I’ll feel calm”, instead of just matching the energy of what I was trying to attract. 

So, I started to think, where in my life can I make changes so that I can become an energetic match for my desires? 

I started slowing down my morning routine, switching my workouts for a beach meditation and basically putting boundaries in place and giving myself permission to say ‘no’ to things, so that I could say ‘yes’ to calm. 

Now I am prioritising calm into my life, I am matching the energy of my desire, I am taking back control and regaining my power. 

So my question to you is:

Where in your life can you match the energy of your desire?

How can you start showing up as if you already have this desire?

What energy are you trying to attract right now?

This is your reminder to give yourself permission and know that it’s okay to set boundaries, it’s okay to say no and it’s okay to change up your routines and habits so that you can become an energetic match for your desire. 

You want that job, show up as if you already have it. 

You want to be abundant, match the energy. 

You want to attract calm into your life, match the energy of calm. 

Affirm it, take bold action & remember you have the power. 

I hope this message hit some of you the same way it hit me, 

Love always 

G xx